If you have a possessive GF / BF

Hi Doodles,

If your partner is possessive then you have to do few things to resolve this:-

First of all think in that way, if he or she is your partner that means they are having good qualities too that is why you are with him/her.

It means something is missing in your relationship that is why your partner is become possessive or you are just over thinking it.

And c'mon accept the fact that everyone likes a possessive partner but this should be in a limit. As over possessiveness becomes a problem for both of them.

So first of all does one thing that is communicate with each other as “Communication is the only bridge to save the relationship”.

Not like “mere babu ne khana khaya kya??  And all”. I mean discuss the problem which you are facing in your daily routine like if you are working share office work pressure issues or any other office related issue and if you are a student discuss or share the problems related to school/college or you can also help each other in studies if you are in same stream.

Second thing, Listen to each other carefully and try to understand their situation or a problem.

Introduce each other with your friends make them comfortable in your group.  Give some space to each other too so that they don’t feel like that they are caged in a relationship.

Spend as much as time with other. Go for a movie on weekends or travel together somewhere. Give surprises to each other like gift him or her something which they like and want to purchase for themselves but not able to due to some reason.  It’s not a universal rule that “Every time surprise or gift is only given by boyfriend”. Girls gear up and make realize the boys that we can also give them a surprise.

If you doubt each other then I would suggest don’t do that. As most of the relationship die because of this. Trust each other, Respect Each Other.

Even after doing all this, your partner’s behavior does not change then it’s time to move on.

Say Good Bye to each other in a Good note.

Thanks

Medha Vadi

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